venues:
The Compound
Atomic Cantina
Burt's Tiki Lounge
El Rey
Golden West
District
Exxon Valdez
Sunshine Theater
Sol Arts
Outpost
Misty's Hideaway
The Blue Dragon
The Cell
Kimo
Journal Pavillion
Air Dance

sites:
abqmusicscene
burque info
Albuquerque bands MP3s
Rocksquawk
nmscene
Mitch's New Mexico Music Connection
New Mexico Hardcore
New Mexico Music Commission
Albuquerque Music Association
New Mexico Events
New Mexico Local Bands
Las Cruces Scene
Farmington Now

publications:
Wig Wam Bam
Alibi music section
Hyperactive
Albuquerque Journal
Daily Lobo
Parched Zine
Disordered e-Zine
TVI Times
The Dish

radio:
KRUX 91.5 Las Cruces
KUNM 89.9 Ear To the Ground
104.7 The Edge

misc:
New Mexico Music Awards
and of course, I Heart Machine for all your band merch needs!

outside of town:
las cruces, nm
La Cucaracha
the club

clovis, nm:
The Hole

flagstaff, az:
Madeye
Mad Italian
Monta Vista

I left off recording studios, instrument stores, record labels, etc.
Anyone have any other good local things that aren't bands and have at least some local music?